Why can't people accept transuals as regular members of society?

Please ignore all the idiots on here who insult you. I accept anyone if they are a good person. I personally don't know any transuals but I do feel for their pain & think they should do whatever makes them happy & I think,just maybe when someone is born but doesn't feel right about themseves & doesn't do anything about it like transuals do they grow to be very hostile people who hate their lives.